PILLAR

Speaker Sharing Guide

You know what deployment really feels like. Now help another spouse find the community you wish you'd had sooner. Everything you need to share PILLAR is right here.

Deployment is lonely. But no spouse should have to go through it alone.

Our goal is to reach 2,000 military spouses this year — and your share is how we get there. Every post, every email, every conversation helps another spouse find their village.

Why Your Share Matters

Right now, somewhere in the world, a military spouse is spending another Friday night alone. They've counted down 47 days and have 200 more to go. They're holding it together for the kids, but they're exhausted — and they don't know that a community of thousands is waiting to welcome them.

Your share could be the one that reaches them. Every email you send, every post you share, every story you tell helps another spouse find PILLAR — and find their people. The more we spread the word, the more spouses we can wrap in support, resources, and community when they need it most.

@camouflage.perks sharing PILLAR resources
@kidsbooksbychandelle promoting PILLAR retreat
@thewomanandwarrior PILLAR registration post
@milspousematters sharing PILLAR
@theredwhiteandboo speaking at PILLAR
@keepitpeachey promoting PILLAR retreat
@secure_families at PILLAR 2025
@ashleymikell with PILLAR workbook
Happy Hour story share
Yoga sequence prep story
Late-night video editing story
Recording talk story share
On set story share
Behind the scenes kickoff story
@camouflage.perks sharing PILLAR resources
@kidsbooksbychandelle promoting PILLAR retreat
@thewomanandwarrior PILLAR registration post
@milspousematters sharing PILLAR
@theredwhiteandboo speaking at PILLAR
@keepitpeachey promoting PILLAR retreat
@secure_families at PILLAR 2025
@ashleymikell with PILLAR workbook
Happy Hour story share
Yoga sequence prep story
Late-night video editing story
Recording talk story share
On set story share
Behind the scenes kickoff story

Real posts and stories from past PILLAR speakers — hover to pause

Step 1 - Grab Your Assets

Everything below is ready to go — just add your voice and share.

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Email Templates
Prewritten emails ready to send to your list.
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Promo Graphics
General PILLAR promo images for social posts.
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Speaker Graphics
Your speaker card, headshot and bio to share.
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Social Swipe Copy
Done-for-you captions - just copy and paste.
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Step 2 - Follow the Timeline

A simple plan to follow — because the spouses who need PILLAR won't find it unless someone tells them.

AUGUST
Send Email #1

Introduce PILLAR to your list. Share why you are involved and why this matters to you personally — your 'why' is what will move people to register.

First Social Post

Announce you are a PILLAR 2026 speaker. Use your speaker graphic and tell your audience who this retreat is for — the spouse who is counting down alone right now.

SEPTEMBER
Send Email #2

Reminder email with a personal deployment story. Share a real moment from your own countdown — the hard days make the best case for why PILLAR matters.

Behind-the-Scenes Post

Share a photo prepping your presentation and tease your topic. Show the real, unfiltered side — spouses connect with authenticity, not perfection.

OCTOBER
Send Email #3

Final reminder — the retreat is Oct 16-18! This is the last push. Remind your list that it's free, it's online, and it's built for exactly where they are right now.

Countdown Posts

Post daily Oct 13-15 counting down to the retreat. Each day, name one person you know who needs this — and tag them. Make it personal.

Go Live / Share

During the event — go live, post that you're watching, and invite others to join you. Real-time sharing creates FOMO that drives last-minute registrations.

Step 3 - Content Ideas

The most powerful posts aren't polished — they're real. Your story is what will move another spouse to register.

Becky and Joanna are available to join you on your social media pages for a live chat or on your podcast to discuss PILLAR and any other deployment-related topics your community is interested in. Email becky@pillardeploymentretreat.com to schedule.

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