Deployment is lonely. But no spouse should have to go through it alone.
Our goal is to reach 2,000 military spouses this year — and your share is how we get there. Every post, every email, every conversation helps another spouse find their village.
Why Your Share Matters
Right now, somewhere in the world, a military spouse is spending another Friday night alone. They've counted down 47 days and have 200 more to go. They're holding it together for the kids, but they're exhausted — and they don't know that a community of thousands is waiting to welcome them.
Your share could be the one that reaches them. Every email you send, every post you share, every story you tell helps another spouse find PILLAR — and find their people. The more we spread the word, the more spouses we can wrap in support, resources, and community when they need it most.
Real posts and stories from past PILLAR speakers — hover to pause
Step 1 - Grab Your Assets
Everything below is ready to go — just add your voice and share.
Step 2 - Follow the Timeline
A simple plan to follow — because the spouses who need PILLAR won't find it unless someone tells them.
Introduce PILLAR to your list. Share why you are involved and why this matters to you personally — your 'why' is what will move people to register.
Announce you are a PILLAR 2026 speaker. Use your speaker graphic and tell your audience who this retreat is for — the spouse who is counting down alone right now.
Reminder email with a personal deployment story. Share a real moment from your own countdown — the hard days make the best case for why PILLAR matters.
Share a photo prepping your presentation and tease your topic. Show the real, unfiltered side — spouses connect with authenticity, not perfection.
Final reminder — the retreat is Oct 16-18! This is the last push. Remind your list that it's free, it's online, and it's built for exactly where they are right now.
Post daily Oct 13-15 counting down to the retreat. Each day, name one person you know who needs this — and tag them. Make it personal.
During the event — go live, post that you're watching, and invite others to join you. Real-time sharing creates FOMO that drives last-minute registrations.
Step 3 - Content Ideas
The most powerful posts aren't polished — they're real. Your story is what will move another spouse to register.
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